Rules of Membership

*It is required that each Tell Them Thanks member write to their respective Service Member at least once a month. If for some reason you are unable to fulfill your commitment of one letter a month, please contact a member of the administration so that we may reassign your Service Member.

*SERVICE MEMBER INFORMATION MUST BE KEPT CONFIDENTIAL AT ALL TIMES.

*It is against the law to mail any of the following items to your Service Member. While there are several "rules of thumb" that can be referred to, individual APO/FPO zip codes have restrictions that are specific to the overseas location they serve. It is your responsibility to find out what these restrictions are. Forbidden items include any matter depicting nude or seminude persons, pornographic or sexual items. Non-authorized political materials are prohibited as are bulk quantities of religious materials contrary to the Islamic faith. Religious items for the personal use of the service member are permissible. Firearms of any type are prohibited. Pork or pork by-products are also prohibited. Fruits, animals, living plants, and soil are prohibited. All alcoholic beverages and materials used in the making of alcoholic beverages (distilling materials, hops, malts, yeast, etc.) are also prohibited.

*Tell Them Thanks is not a dating service. All members are forbidden to engage in any kind of romantic or sexual relationship with their Service Member. Any such behavior will not be tolerated and you will IMMEDIATELY be removed from the organization.

*Please do not send any forwards/jokes/spam/etc. to the Tell Them Thanks email address. This address is intended for group business only.

*Any promotion of Tell Them Thanks must be approved by either Lana France or Mary Ann Tozer, Co-Presidents.

*If you have more than one email address, please provide only the one you would like Tell Them Thanks to use.  Also, please be sure to notify us if your email or mailing address changes.